Sunday, March 24, 2013

You mess'n with me?


He crept forward to the limit line of the three-way stop like he was approaching the edge of the Grand Canyon to look down but was afraid the ledge would give way. There was nobody at or approaching the cross street to the left and the oncoming traffic could only turn right or come straight through. I was inching along trying to get to the stop without putting either foot down to the pavement. He finally got to the stop and took an exaggerated look left and then right to where there was no street; I was foiled and had to put down my foot or lose the Victory Cross Country. He checked his rear-view mirror and met my eyes; the smirk that showed at the corner of his eyes belied his faux-safety approach almost as much as his running the stop sign up the street to cut me off so close that I had to go hard to the brakes. This guy was messing with me (to use the politically correct term). I hadn’t honked, made any overt gestures at him, or yelled; I was on my best rider-behavior and yet he felt compelled to mess with me and felt no remorse for cutting me off and endangering me as a fellow motorist. Maybe it was unconscious body language that I sent out, who really knows?

Why is it that drivers will tailgate a rider closer than they would ever follow a car, or knowingly cut a rider off or otherwise impede us on the roadway? Is it because they know we can’t afford to bump them or otherwise have to take firm action to avoid them, knowing we’d lose any confrontation between car and bike? We certainly can’t get mixed up with road rage by putting a boot to their side panel; one over correction on their part and we’d be flying. Is it some sort of aggressive retaliation for some time that a biker split the lanes at a stop light and then cut in front of them at the green; or being frightened by a lane-splitter they didn’t see coming at 20 or 30 MPH faster than they were going? Whatever their reasoning is, they are a menace to riders. It’s bad enough that we have to be aware of everybody who might not see us and endanger us without knowing.

Vigilance is the key and the only thing that keeps a rider relatively safe on the roads with all sorts of drivers. I knew this guy was going to roll through the stop sign and cut me off and anticipated his actions otherwise my hard braking may not have been enough. I had hoped that he wouldn’t mess with me further but couldn’t afford to assume that he wouldn’t.

Now the million dollar question - $64K just won’t cut it anymore: A show of hands please; how many of you mess with anybody on the roads, bike, car, or big-assed trucks? That’s too many of you even if we don’t count all the ones who fudged their answer. Don’t mess with people on the roads; it’s bad for your health even if nothing comes of it at the time. You develop bad habits and the experience does weird stuff to your body, increasing heart rate and blood pressure while spiking the adrenaline. And, like so many of the world’s religions tell us; what goes around, comes around. Don’t treat others like you don’t want to be treated.

Vigilance always and keep the iron side up.

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